Frame Control 101
Watch Ceasar Milan dominate this territorial dog
I’ll get flack from this from my little sisters, but you’ll learn more about picking up women by watching The Dog Whisperer than Vh1’s The Pickup Artist. Even though he gets bit, he doesn’t lose it. I’ve seen many men crumble at the first bite of a snarky girl.
His frame control is epic
Imagine you’re at the party, you approach a girl and she gives you a hard time. Maybe saying something like, “Look just leave us alone,” or, “Do you do this often?” or, “You’re stupid, go away.” (Don’t anticipate this reaction. Always be free of thought.) They are baring their teeth. Now since you’re the alpha dog, you remain cool, you don’t flinch.
Domination means you are in greater control than the other party. You feel a powerful, joyful, even loving energy…not an angry one.
Watch Mike
He doesn’t hate his opponent. Mike just knows something he doesn’t. Mike has the professional cool of a Martial Artist in his prime. His opponent submits before the battle begins.
Not just women, but men, shit…society will try to break your frame. They want you to crumble. It’s your job as a man to be boss, in control, cool and charming.
You can have high energy and still maintain frame control. You don’t have to be Batman, emotionless and cold. Notice Ceasar is a very happy guy. The dog is not angry with him either, but he’s a dog, and responds to the language of dogs. Many dog owners will either submit to, or beat their animals. The proper method is to show emotional leadership, courage, and frame control.
Here’s an example of someone losing their frame, badly
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_Ivh3BrtpE
When you fuck up, relax, and do not amplify the situation by getting emotional and saying dumb shit. Just smile, maintain eye contact and change the subject. If you’re going to bite back, it better be from a noble position of authority, not an egoic lash of insecurity.
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