Slapping Your Woman

Check out this video of Sean Connery.

I’ve never hit a woman, as I’m one to walk away, but I’m also not Sean Connery. I imagine he’s been with more beautiful women in real life than most of us have masturbated to. Being an international movie star and a super alpha, I’m sure he could bitch slap a crazed lover and be having passionate sex with her minutes later.

I don’t condone bitch slapping, but metaphorically speaking, you should be able to mind slap a ho when she gets out of line. Here’s an example from my life.

“This pickup stuff would never work on me,” she said, a few hours after we had sex in my bungalow. “I like guys that are real, and don’t play games.”

“Look,” I said. Women give men the worst dating advice because…you’re women. You’re not for our interests, you’re for your interests.”

Here’s an example I shouldn’t be proud of, but I am. I was hanging out with some friends at a bar and one of them approached a group of three girls. I looked over a minute later and one girl was waving her hand in his face. She didn’t look pleased. I approached so I could overhear what they were saying. He wasn’t that offensive. Just awkward.

“Look bro,” she said, “You can leave now.”

“What’s going on?” I asked.

“Take your friend and go away.”

“Oh, you’re having girls night out eh?” I asked.

“Yes.”

“Look,” I said. “There will come a time when young men will no longer wish to approach you.” Then I continued. “And that time is not far off.”

 

Men are too eager to please, too worried about repercussion. Women are being masculinized by western ideals and media while men are becoming women.

Another one. I was with a girl and trying to catch a train to Bangkok.

“Oh, look at these shorts. They’re so cheap,” she said.

“Cmon, we don’t have time for shopping.” I said, looking at my watch.

We continued another block until she stopped at a bracelet stand. “Oh, these are so cool!”

This was after four hours of shopping.

“Cindy! Let’s go! I don’t want to pay another thirty dollars each because we missed our train. Enough shopping, you’re a fucking addict. This is all just crap, and you have enough crap. Now you can walk quickly with me or I’ll leave you behind.”

I started walking without looking back. She ran up, grabbed my arm, kissed my cheek and said, “You’re so commanding!”

Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself. She doesn’t have to agree with you, she will still argue, but if you’re right, you are right. If she doesn’t align with your view, she’ll let you know, or break up with you. If you’re wrong, apologize. Real men know when they’re wrong, but don’t let anyone, let alone a woman you want or are banging, spew bullshit without getting a Connery style slapdown.

And remember, never with a closed fist.

***I’m currently in Vancouver and accepting students for May/April. I will be in Montreal in June, and Toronto in July or August. There’s the possibility of Calgary or Seattle. Contact me for coaching options.***