“Have you ever had it backfire?”
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Physical Game, Sexual Tension Game, Verbal Game. Also, by being physical, like touching, hugging, tickling, etc. Have you ever had this backfire?
I’m the first to admit some pathology here, but I’ve hit (not in jest) more than one guy who touched me without my express permission.How do you teach your clients to read the body language of their targets? Would they recognize if they were about to be decked?
Indeed
Yes, I have had it backfire. I’ve had women pull away–give me creepy eyes (Oh well). But, it’s rare. They used to freak out more if I said weird things. Like once I told a girl she looked like a Smurf and she spazzed. I just meant she was cute.
I can get very physical with pretty much any woman I meet, without fear of repercussion. Most women like it. Humans love physicality. And because of the law of state transference, whatever I feel, she feels. So if I’m loving life, she will love me.
The trick is to be free of outcome, and completely self amused. It’s a very attractive quality. It’s like when a handsome dog lifts itself to press it’s paws on your chest and lick your face. You are slightly annoyed, but at the same time, amused and flattered.
In six years, neither myself, nor any of my friends have ever been hit. Except for one guy who was slapped for taking off some chicks prescription glasses and putting them on himself. Which usually gets a giggle. She was obviously crazed, perhaps on bad mdma. Or maybe she was traumatized in childhood by a family member. Sucks.
This is why belief is important. “I am attractive.” “Women love me.” “I’m happy.” “I am a physical being.” “I am physical with everyone.”
Our biological instincts are programmed to help us recognize potentially violent outbursts from tribal alpha males. It’s always best to stand your ground, or retreat when fighting is inevitable. Douchebags are annoying but rarely willing to fight a benevolent target. It’s not worth getting your ass kicked for flirting. Jealousy…bah. A sickness. A contruct of the ego.
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I just don’t want to get kneed in the nuts.
Some thoughts : “The Law of State Transference ” , ( you’re in a happy, comfortable in your own skin , you have some attitude , you are firing on all 10 cylinders , you are in the zone – to a certain extent , kind of mood ). If we could sum everything up , to be a success in PU (& life?) , does it all boil down to our mood , our ‘state’ ? Thus The Law of Transference would then kick in ?
If our state is so important , the next question is , how do we get to this Nirvava type state?
Keep up the excellent work Tony!
You can get into state many ways. You can actually just tell yourself to “Be Happy!” However, if you have a chemical unbalanced, this could be difficult. I’m not a doctor.
For myself, the best way to hit a social state is to be self amusing, and talk to lots of women.