The Daygame Mindset For Total Success
I’ve coached more guys at daygame than I can count. Literally, 16 years of experience and counting. I have more anecdotal experience than most coaches on this planet. I’m not sure about Uranus. 😛
Because of this wealth of experience, I see patterns. Like this one; every single client has the exact same 3 problems:
- They don’t know what to say
- They have approach anxiety
- They feel creepy
So they don’t approach because they don’t know what to say, and they don’t know what to say because they don’t approach for practice.
I even direct these guys towards my exhaustive conversation course, my books, my Youtube and lengthy articles on this blog. I go beyond this and reference other coaches and their content. And still, they say, “But I don’t know what to say.”
Creepy Feelings
Then there’s the “I feel creepy” factor.
This, in my opinion, is because men have been brainwashed and gaslit by a lifetime of feminist, liberal propaganda, telling them they’re all worthless scum who shouldn’t dare even looking at a female without a consent form.
The truth is women really don’t care about your insecurities. All they know is they:
- Met a cool guy, or…
- Didn’t meet a cool guy
Whether that’s from a bar, a coffee shop, or an app, it doesn’t matter. She doesn’t give a damn that you are having a panic attack just thinking about talking to her. She doesn’t care that your self-image is shit, and she has no idea how whack your ego is.
What to Say to Girls?
Whenever I take on a new student, I wait for the inevitable question of “what to say?” It always reminds me of that opening scene from the hit show, The IT Crowd. “Hello, have you tried turning it off and on again?”
Most of these guys never had a positive role-model. I was very lucky that early into my journey I met some very talented naturals who helped eradicate the “nice guy” from my character.
My mentors were men who when they weren’t in an LTR were banging dozens of beauties a year. And they didn’t accomplish this by giving a shit what someone thought when they hit on a pretty girl.
What if Someone See’s Me?
When I ran bootcamps I had clients that refused to approach on certain streets, or at certain bars, because someone they knew “might” see them.
“This city has 4 million people.” I’d say. “You really think someone you know will see you, or care, if you approach a girl.”
“Well, maybe.”
And even if someone does see you, what would they think? They would probably think you know this girl, or they would be mildly jealous about the size of your colosal testicals. All you’re doing is telling her you find her attractive. What’s the big deal?
Men Have No Choice But to Try
What choice do men have? To rely on dating apps that are rigged against us? To just never talk to a girl until we’re warmly introduced to one at the staff Christmas party?
As men, if we don’t take massive action to correct our dating situation, we’ll simply be weeded out of the gene pool. Nice guys really do finish last.
There’s only one life. You can spend it stressing about what judgements beta males and feminists pass on you, or you can grab life by the balls, take control of your destiny and make shit happen.
The choice is yours.
