Learning pickup, like any noble skill, is a continuous, life spanning enterprise. The beauty of the crimson arts lies in that in order to attract the most delicious of beauties; one must continually improve their own stock.

This is done by:

Going out regularly and practicing cold approach to improve your social and seductive game

Improving your style and grooming until you are regularly complimented on it, or at the very least, have a semblance of good taste

Studying the scientific method of seduction by visiting blogs, mentoring under a coach, reading Ebooks and watching DVD’s

Going out more than you study

Losing fat, gaining muscle and maintaining a healthy lifestyle

Improving your verbal wit and mental fortitude by reading books and holding long, improvisational conversation with interesting, intelligent or attractive people

Increasing your income without losing free time, or creative time

Expanding your social circle beyond that of the guys from the office or school

Developing new interests and hobbies other than reading men’s blogs

Pushing the envelope of your comfort zone in all areas listed above

Learning seduction is a process that will take an average of three to six years of continuous, uninterrupted periods of study and application.

THREE TO SIX YEARS of STUDY and APPLICATION

I started teaching cold approach pickup after three years. But in those three years I approached close to a thousand women. Of course, I wasn’t trying to sleep with all of them, but I was developing my inner confidence and outer charm.

The speed of transformation varies from person to person depending on many factors; upbringing, social conditioning, genetics, and so forth.

Some people might be born rich into a respected family, and thus, maintain a sense of entitlement. Some might grow tall, strong, and handsome, and thus be validated at an early age for their good looks. Some might achieve success in the arts (music, acting, djing, writing, etc) at an early age and grow into popularity or fame. Some might learn about work ethic and personal pride from a strong father or masculine mother and carry those attractive traits in adulthood.

However, nobody is perfect. We are all works in progress, we’re all scared, and we’re all stumbling through this life like LSD crazed monkeys in a kaleidoscopic zoo.

The key to transformation is in trusting that if you put in the time, pay your dues, and do the work: Things will turn out just fine.

This trip you’re on isn’t always going to be a happy happy fun time Disney style ride. Bad things will happen. You’ll mess up your diet and gain weight, you’ll creep a girl out so bad you will want to quit approaching, you will lose money due to bad luck or poor business decisions. But your transformation encompasses many aspects of your life, and while some are growing, others will stagnate. This is normal.

We remember things. Even if you haven’t ridden a bike in ten years, when you hop on one, in a few hours of practice you will be riding with no hands once again.

Skills developed are not easily forgotten. Get back out there.

***In business news I’m going mad getting ready for another month in Montreal. Plane is booked, room is rented. I have three sold out bootcamps, and two seminars booked. On top of this I’m trying to finish the second draft of my book. This is why blog posts are sparse at the moment.***

***The competition for “How to Make Money” is underway. I’ll give it another few weeks. It looks pretty close at the moment!***