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Toronto Pua Bootcamp December 2016

torontoThis January 2016, I will be in Toronto and possibly Montreal again, and available for Bootcamps, Private and Mentorship coaching.

Prices are on an individual basis.

I’ve always had more luck with women on the east coast than the west. Maybe it’s the university culture, or the hustle of a larger, more vibrant city.

Toronto is known as a feminist hotbed, and though that ideology masculinizes women and emasculates men, it also promotes promiscuity, which is good if you’re just looking for a novelty lay. Oh how I long for my next over seas trip.

Contact me for a free 30 minute consultation. 

Todays tip.

One thing I’ve noticed about my clients is they lack emotional frame control.

When they approach a woman, they let their internal, egoic chatter dictate their emotions. The fear of the future approach causes mental anxiety, which manifests via adrenaline, which takes blood away from the brain and causes “I Don’t know what to say” syndrome.ego

The answer is simple to understand, but hard to master:

Stop thinking.

The military trains soldiers by having them crawl under barbed wire while firing machine guns over their heads. This desensitizes them to fear so that when they enter combat, they’re used to the noises, explosions, and can focus on their job.

It’s the same with approaching women. That’s why we call it a bootcamp. You must learn to conquer your fear and chatter through exposure. By approaching many women, you lose fear of the unknown.

So simple, yet so difficult.

Women loathe male weakness. The ultimate display of male strength is the ability to approach, chat up and attract them with skill and confidence.

When you learn to control your thoughts, and your fears, you become “Present.” You are able to communicate and flirt more effectively.

No amount of ebooks or YouTube videos will help. You must get out and socialize, every single day.

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