“We’re having a girls night out.”
Last night at the karaoke bar, a very social place, my friend approached a group of girls and sat at their table. I don’t know what he said, but one of the girls, the fattest, least attractive one, said, “Go away. We’re having a ladies night out,” and dismissed him with a wave of the hand at his face.
Not cool.
“Ladies night?” I said, standing above them. “You know what men do on boy’s night? We talk to ladies.”
“Yeah well whatever you’re looking for, you won’t find it here, so go away.” The dumpy one chirped.
I looked at the three girls and considered my words. None of them were above a 7 out of 10 in looks. They were all about twenty five years old, and had eaten too many cupcakes. Their skin was blotchy and lines were forming around their eyes, probably from too much tanning, drinking, and harsh makeup.
“You know girls,” I said. “There will come a time when men will no longer want to talk to you…and that time is not far off.”
Their mouths dropped.
Then we walked away. I looked back later as we partied with some younger, prettier and friendlier girls. The bitches were still having their, “girls night.” They looked visibly upset, like I had ruined their night.
Good.
I often receive emails asking if I coach women. I don’t. But if I did I would tell you this.
Diet, read books, be nice, be receptive, give us a chance before you dismiss us and QUIT COCKBLOCKING YOUR FRIENDS JUST BECAUSE NOBODY IS HITTING ON YOU.
Another great post Tony. One thing I’ve realized is that it is usually the least attractive one’s in the group who tend to be the rudest because no guy wants to hit on them. They hate that they receive no attention from guys like their more attractive friends do, so they do their best to cockblock. Awesome post.
The ugly one will always cock block. Be ready for it.
Her friends likely are embarrassed by her. A good response is to look at the other girls and say “Is she always like this?”
I love your comeback, I am sure it made them to think lol
It is interesting how girl will allow her uglier gf to cock block her.
It’s terrible it is.
Hey Tony,
I love reading your stuff, But I was wondering… I see with lots of experienced coaches and professionals that they still get upset(to a smaller degree) when they are treated like crap for no reason by some girl.
I know it’s not the same annoyed or upset feeling a rookie gets when he’s bitched out by a hot girl but I have noticed that experienced guys get put off more by rude behavior from average or below average girls.
Is it ever possible to eventually inoculate yourself from the negative feeling you get from girls like this treating people like shit? logically of course I know it’s entirely their problem, but that unproductive feeling still lingers in your gut that says “What they did was wrong and they should know about it”
I didn’t harsh on the girls because they were being mean to me. The other guy was a student of mine, and I was just watching out for him. Seriously, we should all learn to be positive, zen, chill, etc. But we’re only human. I didn’t post this article for anything other than entertainment purposes. In no way did my actions help me to get laid. But just maybe, in the future, that woman will be a little bit more receptive to the next guy.