How to Build a Social Circle in Ten Minutes

The easiest ways to build status is through people. If you hang out with the cool kids—you must be a cool kid. If you roll with the famous, you must be famous. Get it?

Use this to your advantage. For example, you arrive at a party and introduce yourself to the host. The host is the gatekeeper to the guests. You charm the host with some friendly compliments and he introduces you to all his friends. Whaam! You just opened up a whole new realm of possibility. Machavellian right?

Everybody wants to know the guy that knows everyone else. That’s why club promoters get laid like mad men. They have tremendous social advantage. Good for them. They’re also coke dealers. Don’t do that stuff.

Now if you meet the host, and meet the friends–that’s social leverage. Say you open a group of six—three girls and three guys. You’ve got a party! Make friends, cross the bar and open another group. Say, “Hey…you have to meet my friends.”

Introduce the two tribes. You are now a liaison. A powerful social force to be reckoned with.

You’ve just gone from stranger to promoter/cupid in a few steps. Notice people act differently around you. They like you. You’re cool. You’re a leader…like Optimus Prime or Barack Obama. Or like me…Imagine you’re me.

Now you have plenty of friends. They’re buying you drinks and introducing their little sisters. What happened?

Women are attracted to powerful, social, men. A guy that commands attention from groups displays leadership abilities. You are now Pierce Brosnan. Just like you always dreamt.

If you follow the above steps at any party, women will notice you. I guarantee it. And it’s but ONE WAY to play the game.

This stuff isn’t for everyone. Sometimes I don’t feel like going through all this work just to meet girls. It’s a lot of sweat, blood, tears. But to meet the one, you may need to conquer an army.

If I’m single and like a chick…I just walk straight to her. No wicked maneuvers to tell my friends about. That is always an option.

If you need a woman in your life…DO WHATEVER IT TAKES. Aside from committing any heinous crimes. Don’t be stupid.

It’s almost like playing The Sims. You wander until you meet your neighbors; invite them to your party. They bring friends. You call your buddies and introduce them introduce the two groups, and just like that…you are popular. +15 to social proof. Buy a new couch.

Now squish that whole process down and drop it in a club. Do it in ten or twenty minutes. Just meet and introduce people until you’re the man.

You could try this tonight. I mean, what are you doing RIGHT NOW? Reading this article? I get paid quite handsomely to show guys how to do this. But there is absolutely nothing stopping you from going out RIGHT NOW and trying for yourself. That is the ONLY way to learn.

Now go. Meet Girls. Have Fun.

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