How to not be Boring

How to not be Boring.

I developed this website and my training courses for a specific niche: Men who want to attract women. Attraction isn’t a big deal. Many guys get totally hung up on approaching, end up with a pocket full of numbers but never call them. Why? Because they don’t know what to do after the pickup. They’re afraid of being boring.

First off, you shouldn’t worry about what she wants. Not to sound like a total dick. This is sort of revolutionary–but women want you to lead them. They don’t want to be asked things like, “What do you want to eat tonight honey? Where would you like to go for supper? What movie would you recommend?

Boooring.

You don’t need to have lots of money, or cool stuff like motorcycles and bags of cocaine. But what really helps is personality, opinions, and ideals. If you can bring her into your world, show her things that interest you, and do so with a self amusing air of authority, she will be wowed by your deep, rich, personality.

So…maybe you are into Russian porn or snuff flicks…ummm, well, even though that is really weird any you should talk to a professional, it’s still better than being into other’s ideas and interests.

I really like video games. I’ve collected a few that girls really enjoy, like Little Big Planet and Grand Theft Auto. I show them that you can drive fast cars, blow things up, and then buy new clothes…how cool! The fact that I get excited about these things, not the things themselves…that’s what keeps girls into my hobbies.

Girls are mostly followers. I don’t mean they are lame, or don’t have their own interests. But they will naturally find interest in many of their boyfriend’s interests. They are quick learners. They want to please their man. It’s in their genetics. So to keep them interested, you should have many deep, established interests.

Say you are into fishing. Most city girls would think fishing was boring. But if you actually took a girl fishing, and showed her the Zen like nature of your hobby, they would fall into line with your philosophy.

Say you are into sports. I had no idea my girlfriend would be into mixed martial arts. One day I showed her a fight…she only watched it because she wanted to learn my interests. And now she’s a rabid MMA Junkie. Who knew!

So don’t worry about learning things girls are interested. Just stand tall and teach them your hobbies. Bring them into your world. Develop some hobbies like dancing, card games, sports, etc/ Girls want to learn from their men. They don’t want to teach them.

Lead your woman into a place where she can grow and you will never be a boring guy.