Meeting Beautiful Women on Vacation is Easy

I’m sitting here in Koh Phangan, an island vacation spot in southern Thailand, listening to the lazy waves lap onto a sandy shore. In the last fifteen days of travel with my best friend, we’ve had dates with new beautiful women almost every single day.

We actually considered the success we had, and agreed we have about a 90% approach to date ratio, meaning about 90% of the time we approach women, they end up hanging out with us and becoming at least our friends for the day. It’s fantastic.

It is really, really easy to meet beautiful women in vacation spots

Why is it so easy here?

At home I teach men to approach women. I teach them how to walk with confidence, hold eye contact, make completely consensual physical contact, get phone numbers, dates, sex and all that follows into epic romance land.

It’s rather hard to attract women at home. Their guards are up. They want to know if you know anybody that they know. They want your approach to be perfect, and witty, and you must be well dressed, well groomed, and nearly flawless in your technique. Most of the time even if you get a phone number, they don’t text you back. I’m talking about beautiful girls. Not the average.

Why are beautiful women on vacation so approachable and social?:

They don’t have a large social network to provide for their needs: Their need to talk, to flirt, to feel safe, to be stimulated and engaged.

Since we’re all in the same boat, travellers are open to engaging strangers. It can be dangerous at times, being alone; and it’s in their interest to align with a confident man, or group.

Women on vacation will not be judged by their peers. They are free to reinvent themselves, to play a different role. If they want to be slutty, they can be with little to no repercussion. If they want to party, wear different clothes, kiss men at a barbecue, they won’t be shamed at work, or by family like they would at home.

It’s very romantic to meet people in strange lands. And when you do activities together, like trekking, swimming, or sight seeing; this is a bonding experience. Sharing an adventure, like a midnight swim under moonlight, is very romantic. Climbing a steep and challenging hill together, and facing a little bit of danger creates drama and high emotions, which is great for seduction.

You associate good emotions with those who share your experience

Humans are naturally nomadic herd animals who thrive in numbers. So when travelling, the larger the group you form, the safer you are. More social contacts means more safety and support. If you’re the social guy that brings people together and forms tribes, then your value to a beautiful woman is obvious. This is why you must be social. You can’t wait for them to approach you. Be the leader. Be the guy with a plan.

Many beautiful women on vacation are not approached by men with skill. They are hit on only by drunk losers at the bar. They are drunk and needy and say dumb, boring things, and try too hard to impress. They don’t understand the subtleties of seduction.
If you are decent at approaching and chatting up girls skillfully, you can have a date every single day. This depends on location of course. It’s much easier on an island than a bar in Toronto.

When you approach girls on vacation, all you need to say is, “Hello. How are you?” “Where are you from?” “How long have you been travelling?” Trying to hard to be witty comes off as strange and insecure. This is because everyone wants to make new friends, and share travel information, and form tribes. You don’t need to prove your societal value. Your value is that you are your own tribal leader.

You don’t need to be rich. You don’t need huge muscles, or social status, or cool clothes — you only require confidence and the willingness to create opportunity

So if you’re burnt out from trying to meet beautiful women at home, save up some cash and head to an island paradise to meet sexy, receptive women from all over the world. And if you’re stuck at home, try to think like you’re on vacation. Be happy and ready to socialize every day. Go on vacation in your head. Think like a vacationer. Have travel mind.

Warning: Travel may be addictive, and could lead to a jaded sense of emptiness upon your return to your social hell.

***I’ll be back in Vancouver in February 2015. If you are interested in personal approach coaching in your city, contact me. The price is $1500 for a bootcamp in Vancouver, $2k in Montreal or Toronto, and $2500 internationally. I also have a junior coach, Jason W, who is super talented and coaches for $999 out of Toronto and Montreal.***