approach anxiety

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Why Women Don’t Care About Your Anxiety: Understanding Cold Approach

The vast majority of guys who get into cold approach, whether that’s meeting girls in bars, or through daygame, get frustrated and quit before landing their first girl.  And it makes sense, because cold approach is really, really hard.  It’s not physically difficult, but emotionally challenging. It’s a wild rollercoaster of emotions and women have…

Approach Anxiety? Crush it With The Don’t Look, Don’t Think, Just Jump Method

Approach Anxiety? Crush it With The Don’t Look, Don’t Think, Just Jump Method

I was recently in The Philippines. I went on this canyoneering adventure. We had to hike down this river, inside a deep canyon, and jump off progressively higher and higher cliffs into deep pools of aqua-blue water. The first jump was just two meters; the final jump was 12 meters, or 40 feet.  I struggled…