The Thirty Day Challenge
In 2007 It took me three months, going out almost seven nights a week to meet a pretty girl who would sleep with me. And that was from a house party, not a bar. But the ninety days of practice enabled me to attract her.
Realize this…you are not different or special
You went to the mall last weekend and got a phone number. Good job. Then what? She didn’t text you back maybe. So you went out on Friday, opened three sets and went home at midnight. You figured you worked pretty hard, so you took Saturday off.
That’s not good enough.
If you have ANY approach anxiety…you are not there yet. You will know that you are there when approaching a woman is the emotional equivalent of picking up a leaf.
You don’t know what to say…
That’s ok. Be one with not knowing what to say.
You have a fear of rejection…
Great. At least you’re honest with yourself.
Nobody is going to solve this enigma for you. The answers are not locked up in a dvd set, not in an ebook. The answer is in yourself but it’s walled up behind fear and naivety.
There’s an old game building technique called “The 30 Day Challenge.” The goal is to approach at least one girl a day, for thirty days. Keep a journal. If you miss a day you subtract a day. It’s a powerful learning regimen. The benefit is a wealth of experience, loss of inhibition, decreased approach anxiety and an overall boost in confidence.
Transformation takes time
The results will not be apparent at the end of thirty days. The results will be apparent up to six months after the challenge. It takes time for your subconscious to process your experiences. The transformation happens in your sleep, while you dream. What you are doing by learning all this picking up girls stuff is not how to manipulate women into bed. It’s how to reprogram your brain. You are weak.
If you’re scared of women, you are weak. This fear is a great weakness. Every time you face your fears, the excitement you feel is weakness leaving your body. This is why approaching women is such a powerful self-development tool. It’s harmless, yet traumatizing.
I’ll be honest. I never did the thirty day challenge. Pickup for me was not a hobby. It was a matter of life and death. Aside from writing my first novel, it was the most difficult thing, and the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done. I did a 590 day challenge.
Taking Breaks
I never take breaks. I do or I don’t do.
If you dabble, dipping your toe, you will never, ever be good with women.
So my advice: go out for at least a month, every day, and try to get one phone number per day, no matter what. Go to a mall, go to a bar, go out alone, or with friends. But put in the time and pay your dues. Then you will be closer to reaping the reward.
Women. Lithe, soft and lovely. They want you to meet them. They’re horny and bored and waiting! Dammit. I promise.
And if chasing girls isn’t your thing, the challenge can be applied to almost any endeavor from income generation, to health and fitness.
***I’m currently accepting clients anywhere in North America for $1499 per bootcamp. Let me help you step up your game to the next level. Contact me today.***
I don’t mind taking the challenge, but first I want you to go by my terms.I want you to be my wing person and introduce me to the woman of my choice.I am saying this because I have experienced that white girls here are ignorant and racist and this is why I now have fear, not lack of confidence.Your program can only give me advice to be confident and approach, but I cannot change a woman’s pre-judgement towards me.I have been online for the past 2 years and I have not had one girl that liked me or favored me.I am better as far as intimacy is concerned than any guy out there. Sorry girls, the truth is it’s your LOSS.
Hmm. I think you may be right about prejudice, but in my experience I know many men of asian descent who do friggin awesome with women. Watch simplepickup.com for inspiration. Three coloured guys who kill it. Also, many of my students are asians.
If you spend too long staring into the abyss, the abyss will stare into you.
Ask yourself, are these thought HELPING me? If they’re not helping, they are useless. It’s just your ego trying to pump itself up. It won’t help you get girls. It will do the opposite.
Tony,
No it’s not helping me, but these girls just give numbers, but never pick up or make statements like we are strangers and about not being comfortable.So, I conclude it’s ignorance and racism period.I am in Alberta not B.C,so there are much more white guys here.Also, there is a stereotype towards brown guys(which is bullshit).These Asian guys you say are good,do they date 9’s and 10’s, cause that’s who I am interested in.
Im a young 19 year old university student, taking 4 classes, got 2 jobs, and just took out a student loan. Strapped for cash atm.
Don’t take pity on me, tell me how I get a SUGAR MOMMA in van city. Go !
Meet girls at the mall. Downtown if full of young women. Daygame man. Daygame.
Not young women bruh a sugar momma to buy me things lol. Cougar or something
So?
I wanna know too
I really enjoyed this article Tony.
Currently a freshman in College, and I do all my cold approaches on Mondays to Thursdays because on Friday thru Sunday my campus is practically dead.
I’ve already noticed that once Monday rolls around again, the 3 days I spent dicking around and being “relieved” that I didn’t force myself to go out means that I’m not only rusty but some of my approach anxiety comes back again.
I am going to take up this challenge. Even if my campus is dead on those 3 days, I’ll make myself take the trolley downtown if I have to, as long as it means I at least approached one girl that day.
Yeah man. Even one a day is better than none. Shit, I talked to seven girls in Chapters Indigo today. I wasn’t even trying.