Why I Don’t Write More “Meta” PUA Type Content

Someone told me the other day, “Tony, thanks for writing stuff for newbies. Some of the other coaches write such complex, meta advice.”

The reason I write newbie stuff is because picking up women is a base, ape-like desire that any man can learn with a basic understanding of female psychology, and a tiny bit of willpower.

Of course, this doesn’t apply if you lack bravery, a positive attitude, hygiene, style, and average intelligence. Cowards and losers will simply be weeded out of the gene pool.

Practically, cold approach is so simple.

• Approach lots of women.
• Make sexual advances on lots of women.
• Find the women who enjoy your sexual advances.
• Put your dick in them.

And to think this advice has employed me for 15 years.

That and teaching men how to overcome approach anxiety, what to say, and how to text. All of which is mind-numbingly basic once you grasp a few fundamental concepts.

The problem is guys consume all of this information and never apply it. And if they do, they don’t apply it often enough, or with enough women.

That is why coaches who create super deep, meta content, are just filling these men’s soft heads with more and more time-wasting mental masturbation.

The goal is not to teach these guys, but create a lot of content, to get them hooked, always feeling like they need to newest technique rather than just going out and cold approaching.

But the inner nice-guy prevents most from taking that step.

I’ve said this a million times: You’ll learn more from one two-minute daygame approach than consuming 100 hours of “meta” content.

I used to teach pickup bootcamps.

I’d fly across the world, stand in front of a group of trembling men and say “Congratulations… you paid me $3000 to give you permission to hit on chicks.”

I stopped doing bootcamps because I can give men even better results over live streams, at half the price.

I’m so sick of writing about the same thing over and over. There’s no point in going “meta” because female psychology is very, very simple.

• Be a busy guy with stuff going on.
• Be fun and refreshing to be around.
• Keep your word.
• Fuck her good.
• Don’t worship her pussy.
• Don’t be needy.
• Learn to tease and make her laugh.

Baam, you’re better than 99% of her past or future lovers.

I could break down all of those ideas super duper meta, but it wouldn’t matter. Most of you will never get good at approaching, because you’re too scared to approach. And you don’t want to pay a measly $50, or even a whopping $5000 to hire a coach.

You won’t even spend $1 on self-improvement, yet still can’t even overcome your approach anxiety.

Instead, you’ll just keep searching the Internet for the next coach who says all kinds of gobblediebloop to inspire your thoughts, and maybe you’ll even do two or three approaches this year.

That’s why I created a $50 mastermind group, where guys can just sit in twice a week and listen to me philosophize about this stuff.

They can ask questions, take notes, and watch the replays later.

That way I don’t have to write another 3000-word article on why she won’t text you back (Hint, meet more girls.)

Also, in this group, the advanced guys can just pop into the stream, ask me their advanced questions, and bounce. It’s great!

If $50 is too much for the keys to all the pussy you can imagine, I even have a free group.

People don’t value what’s free. That’s why I keep all my deepest shit behind a paywall. It keeps the brokies and value suckers out.

The meta PUA scene died with the demise of RSD.

Some people say it died in 2014 when “Redpill” got big. Guys like RooshV, Heartiste, Rollo Tomassi, and the Reddit “Redpill” replaced cold approach with bitching about hypergamy, and it became so much easier to just blame society and women for all of our problems scoring tang.

Also, Tom Torero dying was symbolic of the daygame movement fading away. At least as a commercial, mainstream entity.

Now it’s Hamza and Andrew Tate who are the big influencers. I’m not sure if either promotes cold approach. I know that they push making as much money as possible, being fit, and learning to fight.

Also, Tinder is dead, and everyone is teaching how to get “social circle” or “Instagram” hotties. Which, for most guys, unless they live in Colombia, is even harder to score from than cold approach,

I can see that daygame, cold approach, is really dead in the minds of young men. So it leaves way more for those of us who can do it.

I don’t know what’s next. But the type of advice I share on my blog, YouTube, and here… is common. I know that guys can find this advice anywhere, from a thousand YouTube channels, TikToks, and websites. Soon AI will be able to teach it.

We’ll all be able to go as meta, and gather as much information as we want.