Where Should Absolute Ability be in 2012?
So my blog is at a cross roads. I’ve spent over a year sharing my ideas and experiences as a dating coach, womanizer and writer. At this point I’m teaching seduction bootcamps in Vancouver, and occasionally Montreal, but my real passion is writing.
In order to get my blog to rank higher in search engines I will have to write blogs with titles like, “How to get a girl to like you” and “Ten steps to kiss a girl.” Booooooring. I am constantly swinging between marketing my local coaching and sharing eccentric philosophies. I feel I need to focus what it is I want as the blog readership grows. But this is after all, for you: The guy wondering how to get a girlfriend.
If you Google these phrases you’ll see many websites with low quality, regurgitated common sense. I believe much of pickup is common sense, but I also believe the fans of Absolute Ability, Tony D and Zardoz (All me) come here because I give you certain brand of wit, knowledge and entertainment.
For this month I encourage all my readers to email me with your pickup, dating, relationship or self development questions. I’ll pick the best ones and make blog posts about them. Just email me with the title “Questions for the blog.”
So I’m asking my readers, what is it you like the most about the blog? What posts are your favourite? What direction would you like to see me go? Post these in the comments section below.
As you can tell I’m not a great web designer or internet marketer. But I do dream of living a free life, able to adventure and share wisdom for a living. This is why I am being transparent with my readers. I’m not a faceless guru, even though I haven’t decided to share my face. I am here to make a living and also help guys learn to be tremendously successful with women, and life.
Let me know what you think.
Peace.
Tony.
Tony, every time I read your blog I am entertained but more importantly you are very good at writing articles that MOTIVATE me. Very inspirational stuff.
Personally, here are a few topics I would personally love to read more about on your blog:
– Vancouver venue guides and differences in how to game them IE dive bars vs irish bars vs clubs vs hipster joints
– Educational field reports aka pua porn
– Infield videos would be super awesome
– Macro level stuff (state of Game, darker side of the game, different stages of development and relationship management, etc)
Tony, I enjoy and respect your work. I read it because it keeps me on track and pushes me out of my comfort zone – both intellectually and practically. I enjoy that stories more than the how-tos, and I enjoy the stream-of-consciousness rants most of all.
Keep up the great work.
Luc.
I like that your articles provide substance without being market-y. They’re not like “5 steps to x” and you have to sign up for a boot camp to get steps 3 through 5.
To borrow your term above, I like your blog’s transparency. You come off as a regular guy doing his thing – not a pua clown and not a snake oil salesman. Just a guy that works hard and encourages others to do the same.
Wow guys thanks for the support.
I just got off a pretty grueling bootcamp, helping a couple guys deal with their fears and demons and seeing them become pimps before my very eyes.
Then I come home and have new blog comments. Life is good!
I really need this sort of feedback so I can understand what the reader wants, and continue to produce high quality content.
Word.
Just tell her the truth and the REAL reason you think the reotlianship is not working. Don’t give her some BS line, just tell her straight up.Im sure any girl would appreciate an honest answern rather than some made up line thats supposed to be a quick fix to breaking up.
I’m not sure what you’re referring to, but ok, I agree.