There seems to be a lot of confusion over what it means to, ‘”Elicit Values.” Values are not places, people, or things. Values are beliefs, desires, motivations and attitudes.

Values are why people do the strange and wonderful and terrible things they do.

If you ask someone, “What’s your favourite food?” And they answer, “Pizza;” this is not a value, this is a statement.

If you ask, “Why do you like Pizza?” and they say, “Because I love food that makes me fat and lazy.” Wallah! Values.

Instead of saying, “Oh cool,” after every question, ask, “Why?”

“Why do you like living in Japan?”

“Why do you like Yoga?”

“How does it make you feel when you perform fellatio?”

When you elicit values you dig deeper, below the surface to discover what makes someone tick.

Women always say men never listen. And it’s not that we aren’t listening, it’s that we don’t ask the right questions that bring forth emotion. When someone shares their values with you, it’s a bonding experience.

We’re so worried about dhv stories that we don’t hear what the women are saying. They’re constantly giving us feedback and hints but we’re stuck in the newbie tunnel with horse blinders on.

What about you? What’s your favourite hobby? Hockey? Poker? Gaming? Muay Thai? When someone asks you about your hobby, and then they say, “cool,” and change the subject, doesn’t it leave you feeling deflated?

Seduction isn’t just about teasing and cocky behaviour and quick makeouts. It’s about learning what makes the other person tick and bringing forth desire. You stroke their ego, make them feel good, and cause them to invest. The more information you acquire the more potent your seduction.

Muuuaaahahahaha. Muuuuahahahahaah!! MMmmmmmmuuuuuuahahahahahaahah!!!!!