How to Pick Up a Ten

I’ve picked up and dated some very beautiful women. Some of these girls could be called “tens.” But this is subjective. One man’s ten is another man’s seven.  There’s no universal rating system for looks. I’m sure most guys can agree that certain movie stars and models are hot, but even these vixens may not be the stuff you fantasize about in the lonely evenings.

The best true indicator of a woman’s attractiveness is her ability to make you horny. The problem with labeling a girl a “ten” is that you’ve already given her the status of a demi god. This will kill your inner game. If you’re talking to a real and true beauty you need to maintain your emotional frame control lest you become a blithering, stuttering fool.

While you’re learning to approach always go out of your way to meet the most beautiful women you can. Don’t worry about rejection, don’t fear humiliation; this is part of your desensitization to attractive women. When a ten looks into your eyes she must see a guy that isn’t fazed by her beauty.

This doesn’t mean you can’t appreciate her stunning good looks. But these girls have been validated on their hotness for most of their life. If you go direct on these girls you better have something original to offer after your opener. Otherwise you’ll get the “thank you!” of dismissal because they’ve heard it too many times.

Here’s the sad truth. There is no secret magic pickup line, approach, or technique to land you these top tier beauties. What you can do is develop a long term self development strategy to increase your personal magnetism, charm and value. Then you can put yourself in situation where you meet more of the types of women you are very attracted to.

Yes, this may mean a complete lifestyle overhaul. It may mean going out seven nights a week for a year. It may mean getting into shape. It may mean increasing your income, finding cool hobbies, meeting new friends and increasing your social circle. The strategies are infinite, yet entirely doable.

Here is the one advantage you have over every other guy that only dreams about dating beautiful women: You know what you want, have a plan and YOU TRY.

***My book is chugging along. I’ve got 27,000 words so far. I’d say it’s about half done the first draft. This is why my posts are rather short lately.

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I’m looking to be in Montreal for June and possibly July. If you live there or in Toronto, contact me for coaching spots.***