Just Pick Her Up… Literally and Physically

Since I’ve written a bunch of weird poetic stuff lately, here’s some practical advice on how to literally pick a girl up off the ground.

If you want to know “How to get a girl’s phone number” then start by reading that, and then the rest of my blog.

You could do these moves with your girlfriend, or a woman you just met at a party, or the dance floor.

These nuggets of physical dominance are based off my experiences flirting with thousands of women in bars, clubs, streets, beaches and everywhere else.

Physically Picking Up Women

When I first started trying to get physical, “Kino pinging,” was all the rage.

Kino is just “touch.” Go here to read “When to touch a girl.”

When she laughs you reach out your hand and touch her shoulder–“Ping!”

This is a great training wheel but ultimately it just telegraphs a weird semi-intent, purposeless touch. It can come off as creepy.

As I became more confident on the dance floor, I started trying out different moves.

One night I decided I wanted to pick girls up. I mean, literally, “Pick girls up.”

I opened a group and had them hooked enough to try. I said, “I’m taking you home!” and swooped a girl up into my arms like a fireman.

She squealed and kicked her legs with joy. Great success! It’s now a staple of my game.

The Bear Hug Lift

The Bear Hug Lift is a great technique for picking up girls no matter what your size. It’s especially useful if you’re a shorter guy.

You hug a girl, low on the back, above her bum, but even below the bum if you’re experienced. Then you lean back, and lift her up. Use your hips as leverage, and it takes very little strength to do so.

Most women will laugh and kick their heels until you put them back on the ground. It’s a great move for increasing the excitement and fun of a good dance, or flirtation.

The Shoulder (Fireman) Carry

The shoulder carry is super extreme. You hoist the girl onto your shoulder like she’s a kidnap victim.

It’s a bit tough to master. I don’t do it often because I dropped a girl once. So you need to be careful.

The Missionary Carry

You can get a girl to ride you missionary style, but it’s more a submissive decision than other options, so it means she probably very comfortable or attracted to you.

You lift her off the ground and she wraps her legs around your hips, holding her groin against yours. It’s the same position you would be in for missionary sex, but standing up. Hot!

The Rescue Carry

With the rescue carry, you pick her up and carry her like a cat, or a damsel in distress.

With this move, she can easily squirm out of it, or allow herself to be carried if she find it exciting.

Women Love to be Picked Up – If Attraction is High

For her to wrap her legs around your waste is a decision based on attraction.

To hoist a girl over your shoulder is more about cave man type aggression and playful dominance.

These physical moves of picking a woman up, off the floor, can feel very dominant and sexually exciting to a woman.

If she doesn’t try to shake herself down, it’s a good sign she’s into you. Haul her off to the couch, and slam a make out!

In my own adventure to improve my confidence with women, would make a point of trying these things, night after night.

I would learn to physically pick girls up in a way that my words could not.

If I didn’t have something to say, I would just swoop them off their feet and run off.

You can do this too, but it will take a lot of practice.

This helps develop a fearless attitude. Not once has a girl ever said, “No!” when I tried lifting them off the ground. Not on the dance floor.

Push the limits of what you think is possible. Instead of a creepy, “kino ping,” try carrying her across the threshold like a new bride. Pick her up and even tell her “We’re getting married.”

Physical dominance (Picking her up off the ground):

A. Pumps her emotional state positively
B. Demonstrates Alpha/fun vibes
C. Attracts lots of attention from other women(She squeals and laughs)

When should you attempt to swoop a girl off her feet? When she’s smiling, and enjoying your company.

Just because you picked her up doesn’t mean you’re to taking her home.

It’s just a fun thing that will help you to stand out from the crowd of boring guys.

It may seem intimidating to try at first, but isn’t that the point? To push your comfort zone and alter the course of your dating life?

Good luck