How To Get Sexual With A Hot Girl

Last year I had a client in Bangkok. I wanted to teach him how to get sexual with a hot girl (as opposed to some lycanthropic wildebeest.) So we booked ourselves in an expensive party hostel where hotties were known to seek dick in between excursions.

So I went downstairs and met these two young Dutch birds at the beer pong table, and the next evening we brought them to our room for pre-drinks. My plan was that if the girls liked us enough to drink in our room, then they wouldn’t want to go out to  party, and I could get my client laid.  

We were on vacation… they were on vacation. This should have been easy. 

How To Get Sexual With A Hot Girl

The girls were down to party with us, but the kid wouldn’t touch his girl. She sat there expectantly on his bed, legs crossed staring straight at him—but he just wouldn’t make a move. It was infuriating.  

I texted him from the other bed: “Touch her! Touch her now!” Even though I’d spent half an hour coaching him about sexual escalation, he just didn’t know how, or what he was supposed to do. He was paralyzed with insecurity. 

“Make sure you touch the girl,” I’d told him earlier that day. “Put your hand on her knee, play with her rings, her earrings, her necklace. Check out any tattoos she has. Do something or you’ll blow it. Okay?” 

“Okay Tony,” he said. 

But when the time came, he froze. He just sat there while she shot him every indication that she was down to hook up, right now. My girl was also down, but not without her friend. 

Eventually we started playing card games, and then the girls got bored and wanted to go out. We went out, got drunk, and lost each other in the madness of some Bangkok night club. Game over. 

He learned his lesson. I hope.

There’s a joke amongst dating coaches that we get paid to NOT get laid. We often sacrifice our own fun for the clients needs. 

Anyway, don’t let that happen to you. here’s how to get sexual with a hot girl. 

Talk About Sex

First off, women love sex. They think about it, talk about, sing about, write about, and dream about it. 

Women LOVE having a strong man grab them by the hair, whisper in their ear and say “Who’s your Daddy?” while pounding them doggystle. They love seeing their man’s eyes as he presses his forehead against theirs, just as they mutually climax. 

Women are naughty, sex loving little nymphs. At least… the ones you want to meet are. 

Never Be Ashamed of Your Dick

You have  a dick, right? Is it wide? Veiny? Purple? Are you proud of that little warrior? Or are you ashamed of your sexuality?

Every human being on this planet has either a dick, or a pussy. Men get hard, women get wet. We all know this. 

If you want to know how to get sexual with a hot girl, you mustn’t be ashamed of your dick. Don’t be afraid of your sexuality. 

I teach this because if you want to make a girl horny fast, the easiest way is by talking about your wiener, and her vagina. 

Remember that song: “Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about you and me!”?

I’ve never been with girl that didn’t love talking about sex. It’s us men who are uptight about it. We don’t want to come off as weird, or creepy, or whatever. But they can handle it. Most can. 

Bring up Sex Indirectly

Mention a sex scene in Game of Thrones, or pretend you heard your neighbour banging really loudly the night before. Just steer things onto the topic. 

If you get the girl thinking about sex, she’s going to think about sex with you. 

Of course, there should be some level of attraction there already, and you want to do this obliquely, not straight on like, “Hey… do you like fucking!?” 

Well, I might be able to pull that off. But you should be a little bit more nuanced until you’re very skilled with verbal escalation. It takes a lot of practice, and confidence to pull it off without triggering anyone. 

Touch Her Early and Often

You have to touch her. There’s no way to get laid without touching her. 

Eventually you have to make a move. But that’s way easier if you’ve built up to the moment. 

Some places you can make physical contact are her: 

• Fingers
• Hair
• Arms
• Knees
• Stomach
• Cheeks

There’s an excuse for touching every part of her body. Check out her rings, ear rings, nose ring, tattoos. Tell her she has small ears, then touch them. Tell her she has an eye lash on her cheek, or short fingers, or small knees. Find some reason, and then touch her. 

But please don’t look at your hand as you do it. That just makes it look weird. 

Or if you’re in a club, you can:

• Grab her
• Lift her
• Spin her
• Hug her 
• Dip her

If you watch guys who are good with girls, you’ll see they start touch early. Sometimes slowly, with a graze on her finger, sometimes aggressively, like a one armed hug at a night club. But for most guys, the worst time to start touching is right before sex. If you waited that long to escalate, it’s most likely you aren’t going to get laid. 

Girls need a little time to consider the offer. Unless you’re Motley Crue. Then they’ll just suck you off on sight. 

Gradual Escalation

You don’t want to go straight to touching her boobs or kooch. Not if you’re a newbie. You need a certain level of comfort first. You can’t just go around grabbin em by the pussy! You’re not the President. One day maybe, if you believe.

There’s a million excuses to make physical contact. Escalation is a ladder and you must climb. 

The Difference Between Male and Female Sexuality

Men are like light switches. A flick and we’re turned on. 

We see something we like, and we’re ready to go. 

A girl can say the dumbest things. She could be a racist homophobe; but if she looks great we’d still want to fuck her. She could also be the sweetest, most intelligent girl—but if she’s not hot—we don’t care. Such is the way of men. 

Women are different. They’re more like light dimmers. You can turn them on gradually, over time. A girl can go from no, to maybe, to yes over a very short period of time; but it does take time. 

She might not find you physically attractive, but if you’re fun, charming, brave, strong, famous, powerful, clever… any number of factors can turn her on. 

Funny = Vagina Tingles

Humor is one of the better ways to turn them on. If you’re a funny fuck and you make her laugh enough, she’ll eventually get turned on. But you don’t want to just be a clown. You need to take those funny laughter vibes and turn her on sexually. Otherwise you’re just the court jester. 

Can you learn to be funny? I believe so. But with women the easiest way to be funny is to just say those possibly offensive little truths, sort of like children do. Turn off your filter. 

When I’m with girls I make fart, dick and boob jokes. Stuff that might be funny around six year olds seems to go over well with (cool) women. But it takes a knack for comedic timing. 

How To Learn All This? 

If you want to learn how to get sexual with a hot girl, the best bet is to hire a dating coach. I’m available for Skype coaching, bootcamps and mentorships in select cities.