Entitlement…How To Be Boss

Have you ever approached, or been introduced to a woman that intimidated you? She seemed harmless enough, just another pretty creature in a world of pretty things. Her voice sounds like a tiny symphony, her eyes sparkle with intelligence, her lips promise soft whispers and naughty things.

But she is confident. Very confident. All of a sudden…

YOU ARE INTIMIDATED.

Everything you have ever learned about women fails. You become a nice guy sissy. You are boring and have nothing to say, your explosive personality is now rocks and mud. What happened?

You lost your sense of entitlement.

If you’ve had a job, you’ve had bosses. Some bosses are good, and some are bad. The good bosses have little ego, they make quick, rational decisions, don’t second guess themselves and lead with fairness and authority. They are the boss.

The bad boss changes his mind, verbalizes his fears and doubts, is quick to anger, lazy, and generally…sucks ass.

Whether you have a good boss, or a bad boss…they are still the man and they know it. They have a sense of entitlement. They say jump and you do.

If you are talking to a woman who is not your type. Maybe she’s too fat, or has weird eyebrows or is a retarded party girl…whatever, you may feel, “Boss,” at that moment. You say funny commanding things, you are in the moment and powerful. You are entitled, like a prince or a duke. Now stick a solid babe in her place and your power is sucked away by the vacuum of beauty.

If the woman is more confident than you are, more entitled, she will sense this and you probably won’t attract her. Even worse, any other women around will sense your loss of power and self respect, and they won’t like you either.

Now maybe you’re not rich, or tall, powerful or stunningly handsome. Why would you be, “Boss”? Where do you find your sense of entitlement that will have hotties scrambling to impress you?

Step one. Fake it till you make it.

Get out there and talk to these beautiful women. You’ll find that they aren’t a big deal. What great accomplishments have most 19 year old girls done in their time? Maybe they’ve had their pictures taken beside famous rappers?

If you’ve never even been with a pretty girl, you need to get this straight. You can fake entitlement with body language, vocal tonality, clothing and witty banter…but ultimately real entitlement will come from a deep wisdom found within. It comes from EXPERIENCE.

Celebrities always start out humble, afraid. But after years and years of people kissing their royal asses, they get used to it.

Mike Tyson talks about how most of his opponents were already defeated before he threw the first punch.

 

You need to get used to being cool, playful, calm and confident with hot women. No matter their age, looks, or social status. You need to believe you have them, before you approach, before you even open your mouth. You are THE MAN.

I’m actually intimidated by older women because they have a deeper wisdom than most young girls. I know guys that like to go, “Cougar hunting,” because they feel it’s easier. The real reason they do this is their sense of entitlement tells them they aren’t worthy of women their own age. The trick is to find what intimidates you most, and attack it. Conquer the hurdle of fear.

Picking up women isn’t a path to entitlement. It’s just a great way to gain life experience that most people with never relate to. Because you have done the hard work that most men will never attempt.

Imagine you climbed Mount Everest, or won a kick boxing championship. Now imagine some snooty girl giving you guff because you are flirting with her. Would you feel you deserved the best life had to offer? After all…you’re a champion right?

Be the Boss. You deserve it.