Don’t Compete With Her Smartphone
I had a lady over the other night — a newish one. I brought her home and we’re having some fun on my bed. Her phone beeps and she stops giving me pleasure to lean over and check her messages. I ignore this interruption and we continue kissing. The phone beeps again, and she leans over to check it again.
“Ummm, can’t that wait?” I asked.
“Yeah maybe, maybe not.” She said.
“I think you have a smartphone addiction.”
“No.”
We continued playing and she again checked her messages while in the middle of foreplay. This was our second date and she definitely had not earned the right to act this way, in my house, on our date time, without explanation or apology. It wasn’t just in the bedroom, but also during our dinner, and on the walk home, she would be checking her messages.
“Would you rather check your messages or have fun with me? You should turn it off.” I said.
The phone beeped again. She looked at it, then at me, then leaned down, got her phone and started typing in a reply.
“You know what?” I said, “ I don’t really feel like hanging out anymore. I’m a bit tired.”
She looked up from her texting at me. “Really?” She asked.
“Yeah. I’m tired.”
“So..you want me to leave.”
“Yeah, you don’t need me. You have your smartphone.”
She got up, put on her clothes, her shoes, and I escorted her to the door.
“Are you really mad at me about this?” She asked.
“I’m not mad. But I’m tired, and you don’t seem that excited to be here. So, come back when you are ready to give me your time and attention.”
“Whatever. You can’t be upset with someone because they check their messages.” She walked out of my apartment without setting up another date.
I closed the door, locked it, went into my apartment and picked up my smart phone. I had a few messages to answer.
I’m sure you’ve dated smarter girls than her. She sounds clueless.
Yeah pretty but looks ain’t everything
I actually have serious problem when I approach groups of women, and one of them is texting on their phone and ignoring me. Any ideas on how to handle this electronic cockblock?
Well if I am approaching a girl on the phone I like to say, “What’s your book about?” When she says “What?” I say, “Well it looks like you’re writing a book. Is it a romance or adventure?”
It usually gets her attention at least and makes her stop texting and talk to me.
How the fuck do you even come up with this witty lines?
Such a good line. 🙂
Hell yeah. You demanded respect above any attention / sex you might get from her. Huge badge of honor in my book.
Yeah there is a smart phone epidemic isn’t there?
You stood up to her. Recently a blonde I dated texted somebody else while on a first date with me. I haven’t experienced this sort of behavior before (she didn’t apologize), so I tolerated it, apart from telling her that its rude. She just smirked. At the end of the date, I was so put off that I refused to make out with her.
On the other hand (something different), I recently have been getting 1 or 2 strange messages from other chicks, e.g. ” I’m not feeling a connection with you, friend.” where she adds that she doesn’t want to meet up with me anymore.
In this case I almost feel like texting her back “f-ck off”
This is probably not the most mature response, but it’ll surely feel like the most authentic!
I always feel like getting revenge or “showing her who’s boss.” But really, what will that prove? It’s not very manly behaviour. If you were truly high value, you wouldn’t care that she flaked or disrespected her. You just wouldn’t give her another chance. Her loss.