“Tony, I know I need to learn game. But how do I find the motivation to go out?” It’s a very common question. My answer is this: What motivated men to build the world we live in? Women, of course. Jordan Peterson, brilliant professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, sums up the answer…
Why do people whine? To be heard. To be noticed. To be understood. To be pitied. For comfort and reassurance. Mostly, it’s for attention. It feels nice to take all of your anxiety, doubts, insecurities, and share them with someone, or online, to the world. But does it help? No. Not usually. There’s a difference…
In any personal transformation, your mindset is the most important factor. Check out this conversation I had online with a frustrated young man. I’ve highlighted every instance of negative self-image, victim-mentality, and self pity. Just watch this guy lie and bullshit himself through this conversation. Blaming everything, except his own mindset for his troubles attracting…
My last article about realistic daygame odds triggered an insecure asian dating coach to write a 4000+ word rant about me. He mentioned my name 32 times, complete with screencaps from my very successful daygame guide, I Hope it’s Sunny Out, (which has made me tens of thousands of dollars in coaching income and allowed…
Whatever you feel—she feels. This is the law of state transference. The law works like this: All humans, but especially women, have the ability to pick up on “Vibe.” Yes, vibration. Have you ever seen someone who was so scared, or angry, or happy, that they physically shook? High levels of emotion actually cause your…