So what does that title even mean? And if you’re not an Asian man, or living in Vancouver…why should you care?

You should care about the lesson. It’s a universal one. (That and I’m trying to rank high is search engines. How’s that for honesty? Well you’re reading aren’t you?)

I’ve had all sorts of client; fat, bald, old, black, white, Indian, Chinese and all that mixed (that guy was a freak.) There is one common thread: It doesn’t matter. You can attract women.

Don’t use your race as an excuse. You think that white girl won’t be interested in a Taiwanese guy like you? Think you’re too yellow? Too inexperienced? Your dick is too small?

It’s not the size of your dick that matters. It’s the size of your heart and the size of your balls. Yes…you are stereotyped—I’m sorry about that. But it’s time to move on. If you read my article, “How to not suck at sex,” you’ll see your dick size doesn’t matter all that much anyway. Not that I know, or care about your endowment.

I’ve coached dozens of Asian guys in the art of pickup. All of them have collected phone numbers from white girls. All the ones that tried anyway.

Imagine you see a hot girl. You think, “She looks like a bitch.” You keep this story running as you approach her. Guess what you’re going to get? Not a nice, receptive woman. No, no, no.

You Get What You Think.

If you believe you aren’t enough or that she won’t be attracted to Asian guys…you’re wrong. You think Bruce Lee didn’t get white girls? Jackie Chan? Chairman Mao? Here’s the thing: You Asian guys are hot! You’re exotic. Especially Japanese and Korean guys who are famous for their sense of style in fashion and hair.

If you aren’t approaching white women because you are Asian, you’re allowing Limiting Beliefs to defeat you That’s not your life—it’s the little voice: The Eternal Virgin. He always tells you not to take risks, not to question what he tells you.

Now maybe you’re not into white girls? I’ve coached guys claiming they only desire Asian chicks–I’m cool with that. I’ll teach you to get what you want. But I assure you, if you lie to me…I’ll call you out. And if you say you only like one type of woman…you’re lying.

There is no sexually healthy male that is not attracted to diversity. Even the white supremist when tempted with black beauty will love his greatest fear. He’s still a man. Your Libido is not racist. Neither is hers.

I’m sorry, but you are run by excuses, justifications, reasons…and that’s ok. That’s human nature.

So how do you get over this being an Asian Guy that White Girls don’t like thing? Easy: Start approaching white chicks. Start flirting with them, gathering phone numbers, going for kisses. Just do it and see what happens. Do this every day for a month, then come back and tell me that white girls don’t like Asian guys. I dare you.

And if you can’t, send me an email. We’ll get this handled together. That’s what I do.

If you are still skeptical head on over to one of my favorite dating coach’s blog. DJFuji. A guy that used to be head instructor for Mehow.