You Don’t Forget How to Pickup Women

Last week I bought a new bike and went for my first ride in many years. I took my hands off the handlebars and I didn’t fall. I was a bit unbalanced, but after a few tries it was as if I’d never stopped bike riding.

Learning pickup is like learning to ride a bike, except the bicycle doesn’t have intelligence or emotions, or boobs. You never forget how to ride a bike and you never forget how to do pickup.

Four years ago, after years of being a manslut, I got myself a girlfriend. We were together for a time and it was cool. When we inevitably broke up, I got back into pickup and was surprised to find I didn’t lose any of my skill. If anything, I was better at it. My approach was a bit rusty, but it only took a couple of nights to get back into the Game.

I’ve heard many guys whine about how they’ve taken too much time away from practicing their approach, and they lost their skill. Pay attention:

Unless you develop Alzheimer’s disease, you will never forget or lose your skill with women, because your experiences stay with you. Your subconscious stores the data. You might get older, or uglier — but you won’t lose your experience. You can’t unexperience, experience.

Being a seductive man becomes a part of who you are. It’s like learning to swim, or tie your shoelaces: You don’t forget. Either you do, or you don’t. Your brain re-wires itself and it’s very difficult to unwire. You can learn new habits, or change your thinking patterns, but like riding a bike, you don’t “forget.”

So cut the bullshit excuses. If you’ve taken time off to relax, and you’re bored and lonely and don’t have a woman, get your ass out there and be social. Gain more life experience.

The path to mastery with women is a series of steep growth spurts and plateaus. You never actually go down. You might get fatter, and old, and uglier and your brain may rot with disease, but if you’re relatively healthy, you will never get worse at attracting women.

Telling yourself so is just avoiding the fact that you never arrived anyway.