What is Neil Strauss Doing Now?

I’m slammed with coaching work right now so I don’t have time to write a proper blog post. So instead, I found this Iama interview with Neil Strauss. You know, the guy who wrote The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists. Anyway, it said that he got married. He still writes books, and that’s what happened.

I’m one of the oldschool guys who came after The Game was published. I never really got into routines and all that, but still, if it wasn’t for Neil I probably wouldn’t be teaching this stuff for a living.

I also wrote a novel that some are calling the best pua story since The Game.

Tony D

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