How To Meet Women During The Daytime. Daygame Girls.

I’ve taught Daygame training, or how to approach, attract, and pick up girls (women, whatever) to literally hundreds of men in field, all across the world, over the last five years. I’m just telling you this so you know where I’m coming from. I’ve found from my data that the guys who do best with Daygame tend to be:

• Between 19 and 50 years old.
• Hold a good paying job, or have a career that they enjoy
• Are fit, meaning not very obese. Note, not good looking, which doesn’t seem to matter in that they need to put in the same amount of numbers. And a chubby gut doesn’t matter. But good looks tend to hook the girl a bit easier. Everything is a little easier if they’re good looking but it they are nervous this is negated.
• Are intelligent, creative or witty. Guys who are just dim witted do poorly. The best students tend to have a experience in performance, drama, music, writing, etc.
• Are socialized, meaning they tend to have friends, or have had a girlfriend in the past. The guys who have no friends are usually more nervous when approaching and chatting up girls.
• Follow my instructions without complaint, whining or excuses. This is because I give them a very mechanical structure and when they fight with me, their ego keeps them from doing the work.
• The rest of the guys who don’t fall into those categories are a bit harder to teach. But they just need to work a little bit harder at improving themselves. Even they get dates from the below program.

The daygame curriculum is logical and effective. I keep it as simple as possible to avoid over analyzation, which hinders results infield.

• Wear pants that fit, a nice, clean shirt and new and fashionable shoes. Fashion is basically, no sweatpants, ugly, baggy jeans, or ugly shirts. I can’t be more specific than this. More important is that he is well groomed, meaning no nose hair, unibrow, weird bald spots, yellow teeth, long fingernails etc. I would not be surprised if most of the readers here don’t have these basics down. It boggles my mind how many regular guys getting into game can’t trim their nose hairs or brush their teeth twice a day. Don’t get me started on fingernails.
• Direct approach training. I have the student approach me about three dozen times saying, “Hi. I thought you were cute. I had to meet you. I’m xyz.” Cute could be substituted for anything like pretty, adorable, etc. Not “Interesting.” That is not direct.
• I drill them over and over checking their vocal tonality to make sure there is no upward inflection. This is actually really difficult for most students and often takes two days to rid them of this. If you wonder if you do this, just record your sets to see if you sound like there is a question mark at the end of your sentences.
• Body language. I make sure they can hold eye contact. Often the student can’t. Again, I make them approach me over, and over, and over and if they break eye contact I make them start again. Slouching is sometimes a problem, but not usually. Fidgeting or waving their hands around is common.
• Sight before sound or touch. I make sure during the drill that they student if coming from behind passes me, goes 45 degrees over the shoulder before saying, “Hi.” When I look up and say, “Hello,” then the student can continue. If he continues before I visually acknowledge him, we start again. This is because humans are primarily visual creatures. I’ve also field tested this for years. If you come from the front, make sure she see’s you from as far away as possible. I like to wave and then approach them. This keeps you from startling a girl who is walking down the street who hasn’t made eye contact. You force it by saying “Hi.”
• Distance. The student should be within arms length of the girl. If further away, I drill them to step in closer.
• 2 minute rule. If the girl doesn’t tell him to go away, or leaves herself, the student is not allowed to eject. The interaction must last at least two minutes. If he leaves before 2 minutes, I make him go back and re open. We will chase her for a few blocks and even into a store if we have to. I will not allow this. It forces the student to learn how to sweat it out and keep talking. Nobody knows what to say. I don’t care. Most guys pre eject instead of seeing the set out till the end. It’s obvious, but they still do it. Fear.
• Always be closing. Unless she tells him to go away, he has to say, “What’s your number?” If he fails to attempt a number close, I make him go back and re open.

And we do this for about 4 hours. Most guys do about 5 or 10 sets in four hours. Often they get insta dates. I don’t really tell them what to say, or coach them on verbal game at all. Once the guy is calmed down from his AA he usually starts getting numbers. AA usually drops after three or four approaches. That varies for the guy depending on his base confidence level, but for most of my students they are already pretty solid guys and don’t need too much work. Most of you aren’t hard case newbies. If you are, you just need more experience.

With these bare essentials most guys are very set to continue on their own. I actively try to avoid too much theory. There are also little tweaks. I record them on video with my Iphone for weird body language. And if they’re getting rejected a lot I will step into their sets and listen to their verbal game or take over.

There’s a direct correlation between their nervousness and their verbal game. The less nervous, the better their verbal game. And good verbal game is simply talking normal. The pua guys tend to be way too cocky and come off as weird. So I make them stop doing that. I say, “Stop saying weird shit. Talk to her like she’s your best bro friend, not a girl you’re trying to sarge.” The guys who get what I’m saying get better results than the guys who think verbal game needs to be magic bullets or whatever. The wit is inside you, it really is. When you calm the fuck down and stop trying so hard to be clever, it comes out. And if you’re not clever, fuck it. Go with being not clever. Be boring.

That’s what I’ve been doing for five years, and it works great. Why? Single women just want a well dressed and normal guy. It helps if you make her giggle. But walking up and flirting for a few minutes, then number closing is enough. It really is. I wish I could be there in person to help all of you. And yes, it’s not just for really good looking guys. I’ve taught literally hundreds of guys in field, so the data is apparent to me.

Also, it helps to have good kino and all that, mostly in a prolonged handshake. But that’s about it.

The hard case newbies just take a lot more work. And also, once you have the date, converting that to sex is where most of the “game” comes in, which imo is mostly passing tests, isolating and escalating.

For all of you guys that are saying, “Yeah, but what do I say!? I’m different.” Again, I’ve been teaching this infield for five years, and it doesn’t really matter. You’ve heard it before. Once you start practicing regularly this stuff tends to sort itself out. You know not to supplicate or beg. You know to do a little push pull once in awhile. That’s enough to get numbers and dates from Day Game. And the conversion rate is much better than online dating if you’re looking for more attractive women.

Contact me now for Daygame coaching in your city.