What’s up my Playas!!!!?????

Just sitting in my favourite hipster coffee shop surrounded by plaid wearing fixed gear bikers and lesbian vegan feminists. I prefer this place over Starbucks any day.  I feel special here…like I’m the only one having sex.

So I had bootcamp last night. I took two new students out for four hours of day game and four hours of bar game. I love watching their faces and body language switch from terror and indecision to cold, hard, confidence and charm. This alone was worth all the rejection, humiliation and fear I dealt with so I could teach this stuff.

I was helping one of my students get over his totally irrational fear of approaching a seated group and saying, “Hi. How’s it going? My name is Chris!” when a former student tears past me with three girls in tow. “Hi Tony!” he yells as he disappears into the crowd hand in hand with a cutie. In four months he went from peasant to lord. I felt a pang of pride and stifled a tear of joy.

I would love to say it was all me, but the guy made the choice to step up and get this handled. It’s up to you to get your ass out there and confront your social anxieties.

Many students come to me because there’s “One special girl” they want to get with. I tell them to get one girl, you need to be good with all women. I tell them they’ll need to approach a thousand or more women and it may take several years. I tell them to let go of the one special girl and focus on themselves.

To reach the summit you’ll need to climb the damn mountain. You can’t just rent a helicopter. It will drop you off…but you’ll probably freeze to death or fall and lay bleeding with your innards scattered amongst the rocks. It’s the process of climbing the hill, cutting your hands, bailing and pushing yourself back up that will grant you the skills to survive at the summit (and then make it down in once piece.)

In blog news I’m planning something really cool; a free teleseminar for any guys that are interested. I’m not sure how I will facilitate it yet, or what the topic will be, but if you’re interested in attending sign up for the mailing list at the top right of this page. I will message all the subscribers to inform them of the event in the next week.

Ok that’s enough self-promotion for now. Get out there and meet more women!

Peace.