A despondent young Redditor at r/relationships is asking “How can I win her back?” While some of the commenters told him the truth,—that his neediness was his downfall, they failed to give any actionable advice on how to “win” his girl back. Let this letter be a warning to all you young lovers out there:…

Sure, maybe I’m not a master of same day threesomes or advanced harem management. But after twelve years at this, there’s very little that sparks an epiphany outside of my own experience. Mostly, I’m looking for a spiritual and intellectual second half—not another dozen sexual conquests.  This is the reality of advanced guys, game wise….

If you’re considering breaking up with your girlfriend – but you still love her – I empathize. The decision to break up or stay together can be life changing, for better or worse.  Most mainstream blogs will give you flowery advice like: “Trust your gut,” but sometimes your gut is just wrong.  As a man…