Ahh first dates. So fun. So adventure!

She should follow your lead every step of the seduction, into environments where you are comfortable. Because if you’re comfortable, she will be.

She feels what you feel. So feel good, strong, bold and confident

And if you don’t feel that way…fake it.

She wants an emotional experience. She wants to be a guest on your journey.

Some girls are different. They will want to lead. Let them, a little. But it’s your adventure, and if you want to seduce her, you should lead it.

If you can show her a completely new experience, even if it’s a park she’s never been to, a shoe store she’s never shopped at, or a café she’s never noticed, she’ll relate the emotions she feels to you.

These emotions may be doubt, wonder, joy, or even fear (of the unknown). It doesn’t matter. But in your world she feels something.

You want her to draw a great emotional state from your confidence

The typical betaboy will follow a woman anywhere, anytime, no matter how ridiculous the situation. This creates Sahara pussy.

A classic scenario: You arrive where she’s asked you to meet her, maybe a club, and she’s with many friends.

Now you get to cock-battle her suitors, while she makes out on the dance floor with some random guy. That’s how it always happens.

Never go on a first date to a club unless you own the club, are popular at the club or are willing to walk away and meet other women.

The more you can lead her into your world, the more lost in your reality she finds herself, the further from home she feels, the more she will depend on you for comfort and safety.

This is good. This is what she wants…to be whisked away into your world. She wants your world to become hers. Then when she trusts you, she will bloom and invite you into hers.