5 Tips to Improve Your Odds

Cold approaching random women is a great way to increase your odds of getting laid or finding a girlfriend. But it’s definitely not the easiest. Hot girls usually have an abundance of dating options. All they have to do is change their Facebook status to “single” and a horde of horny suitors will present themselves. Then it’s up to her to decide.

Walking up to strange women in malls, clubs and café’s will land you the odd date or many dates, however, you should look at this approach as a hobby, not as a lifestyle. By approaching many, maybe hundreds of women, you will develop a real life experience that women find attractive. When you speak with them, you can pass their verbal tests, when they look in your eyes, you don’t dart about, when they hear you speak, your tone is masculine and solid. This can only come from experience.

Cold approaching works. I’ve dated many women by just walking up to them and setting up a time and place to meet. However, I’ve been flaked on and rejected more than anyone I know. It’s part of the game. So I’m going to give you some tips that will increase your odds of keeping women interested in you longer term. Because cold approaching, although useful, still sucks. Here are some tips to make yourself more attractive to hotter girls.

1. Find a cool hobby. Social proof is the most powerful of all seductive tools. Nothing wets girls panties like the idea of being with a famous man. The funny thing is, you don’t even need to be famous; all you need is to be seen or talked about. Here are some ideas for hobbies that will get you laid.

Stand-up comedian

Musician

Slam Poet or spoken word artist

Dancer, Salsa, hip-hop

Yoga Instructor

Self Help Seminar Teacher (Unless you have my job.)

Actor in a play or TV

DJ

Magician

Stage Hypnotist

Published Author

Party Host or Promoter

2. Work out, lose fat, grow muscles. Join a local gym, whether that is a weight lifting gym or a mixed martial arts gym. Being in great shape is very attractive to women. If you don’t have any artistic talent that will allow you to be on stage, then you should get into great shape. Looks do matter, I’m sorry. It’s not that you can’t get laid if you’re fat, it just doesn’t hurt at all to be lean and muscular.

3. Build a large social circle. As an introverted writer, this is probably my biggest sticking point. I have a really hard time maintaining friendships or relationships because I’m more invested in creating my art. However, if you want to easily bang girls without the hassle of cold approaching, create or join a large social circle. The easiest way is to host parties. If you have a house or apartment, start inviting people over for drinks. The trick is to keep in touch with many people. Make time to hang out. Let them know about fun things going on in your town or city. Get off the Xbox and make some friends.

4. Improve your fashion. If you are a truly snappy dresser, you will definitely be approached by more women. Basically, if you aren’t being complimented on your style, you have no style.

5. Travel to a country where your look is exotic. I hear that in Poland, the Spanish look is highly sought after. Here in Canada, Australians accents make women moist. In South America and Se Asia, white males are considered exotic and interesting. So do some research and go where your market value is high.

Other than those tips, keep practicing your cold approaching and developing yourself. Also, read books. Seriously. Get off the Internet for an hour a day and read something.