A lot of people have asked me to write a blog post about the recent scandal involving pickup dudes in Vancouver. Eddy Baller already covered the specifics of, “What happened.” This kid learned a lesson about how to be rejected gracefully. Almost every day I some form of hate mail, or hateful comments on my blog….
When I was first getting into pickup, one of my best friends, a natural, was patiently listening to me complain about my lack of results, and he gave me the best advice ever… “Tony. You just have to be positive. Always positive.” Recently I sent a phone coaching client on a mission to approach five…
One of my good friend, an artist, and a man who has slept with over 100 beautiful women (and had a few dozen long term girlfriends,) told me, “Tony, you have to be positive. Always positive.” That was his dating advice to me: Be Positive I am guilty of falling into despair from time to…
(A bit of a long one today) A few of my friends are fans of an American, middle aged, dating instructor/life coach/Internet marketer who I won’t name. His big catch phrase is along the lines of, “Don’t Care.” He is referring to outcome dependence, and how it’s bad. I’ve met a few middle aged Internet…
I Had a Work Crush Once I was working in a restaurant many years ago, and there was a girl I was super stoked on. I feared saying anything remotely flirty to her. She had these big, blue, anime eyes. Working was unbearable because my groin would ache all shift. Women have no clue what…