Inner Game

Discipline and Responsibility

Discipline and Responsibility

“Discipline” and “Responsibility”: The two big traits that separate the high achievers from the low. Rather than acting the perpetual victim, you should take responsibility for your situation, both externally, and internally; not only for your worldly affairs, but also your inner, emotional state. So for example, if you feel angry because your bathroom is a…

Imagine Success, Not Failure

Imagine Success, Not Failure

Humans are evidence seeking machines. In pickup guys often look for evidence that they are not enough, that their game sucks, that things aren’t going to work out until they magically reach that mystical plateau of mastery. “She flaked. They always flake.” “I have to learn to deal with last minute resistance.” “That girl probably…