The vast majority of guys who get into cold approach, whether that’s meeting girls in bars, or through daygame, get frustrated and quit before landing their first girl. And it makes sense, because cold approach is really, really hard. It’s not physically difficult, but emotionally challenging. It’s a wild rollercoaster of emotions and women have…
The Western World’s dating culture is deeply dysfunctional. It’s a relationship where the couple beats the crap out of each other daily but without the makeup sex. By the West I mean the first world: America, Canada, Western Europe, and even Asian nations like Japan and to a degree, China. Countries where monogamy is the ideal,…
One of the biggest issues most guys have is finding the motivation to go out and approach women. Many say they want to learn pickup but lack willpower, focus and determination to spend thousands of hours learning the skill of cold approach pickup. Let’s get real. This shit is hard to learn. Really hard. That’s…
Most guys worry about being seen as “creepy” by the girls they want to approach. There’s a lot of anti-male propaganda out there, and it’s not all unfounded. Many men are just raging balls of testosterone with very little social intelligence or game. Unfortunately, If you want to pick up women, you must risk being…
A reader asked me how he could cure his Approach Anxiety. It’s been too long since I wrote about AA, so let’s free him of his eternal pain and sorrow. The first time I, “approached,” a girl, was in highschool. Her name was Summer. She was beautiful, and nobody noticed her, except me. I played…