***The following is a guest post by my Montreal and Toronto Dating Coach, Jay H. The guy has sick game, and knows how to teach. Check out this great (and long) post on entitlement, being enough, and pulling.*** T.D. One of the biggest epiphanies I ever had in game revolved around the concept of pulling….
Here’s the thing about best and worst texting practices in 2016—women are used to guys with text game. So if you’re trying to stand out by texting the equivalent of a voice mail from 1996, don’t be surprised if you never meet that girl. A client asked me to critique his texting. He handed me…
Most guys are totally concerned, or more like consumed with “what to say to girls” in order to create attraction. Like, if you only knew what to say, then everything would be ok. So you don’t approach women, because you don’t know what to say. And you don’t know what to say, because you don’t…
Some dating coaches show videos of themselves acting like outright assholes and the women in the videos are laughing themselves to tears. Why is this? Not long ago, I was on a date with a lovely beauty. This girl was thin, young and adorable. I decided to make a nice compliment on her waist line: “You…
I’m often asked how to approach women who are either wearing headphones, on the phone, or staring into one. I feel like guys who ask this aren’t necessarily looking for technique, but rather permission. Guys—You have my permission. Go talk to the girl with headphones. This dude on Reddit asked what a good approach was for…