Cold approaching is a lot like fishing. First, you cast your net far and wide. You sink many lines with attractive lures. You hook them hard, dazzle them. The bigger the fish the harder to catch. You need to be very experienced. You need to be abundant. You need patience, wisdom and sharp instincts. Some…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHjd9oq4Am4 Our ability to love ourselves in in direct relation to our ability to be loved. If you go out of your way to make people feel good, in return, your own self esteem will increase. When meeting women, don’t approach them with fear, doubt, or anxiety. They’ll sense a selfish man, not a self…
Reader Mail Time. I sometimes get asked if I coach women. I don’t and haven’t. But I’m totally down to try! I started reading your blog for fun a little while ago, but I recently broke up with my boyfriend (I’m a girl), and I’m starting to think that a lot of the things you…
When you feel your lowest and nothing seems to stick–push harder. Always exert effort in bursts; then wait for the return on your investment. Pickup as a self-improvement tool is a lot like that Psyler character from the tv show “Heroes.” Psyler has the ability to absorb the powers of other super heroes. When you do…
(Reader Mail Time! Hooray.) I love your blog. The field reports are to the point but written without a lot of pua lingo. You’re telling a story about attracting women and your philosophy on why it’s working. One question I have, how do you get over that physical barrier from touching on the arm, to…