Today I want to talk about approach anxiety. Let’s examine a common scenario: Man spots girl, measures hip to waist ratio, hair volume, and other health indicators–becomes attracted. Because of his genetic programming he feels a small surge of adrenaline. His heartbeat increases, his palms sweat, his eyes dart about nervously and his mind stutters…
Most of you will fail. You will never, ever, get good at picking up, and likely never land the girl of your dreams. Not because you aren’t good looking enough, rich enough, or the right race. The answer is simple. You will give up. When a player is out to pickup, he doesn’t go home…
I was talking to a Venezualan friend last night about the extreme flakiness of hot women. He’s been with over one hundred or so. “Man,” He says. “They have a cavity. Everything goes inside of them. We shoot out. That’s why they are afraid. They also want everything. You have to give them everything. Women…
I’m pretty much deep in writer’s block, so here’s a bunch of my stupid pickup routines. Have fun. “You’re not my Dad.” (Great reply for pretty much anything.) “If you were trapped in a well with a squirrell, would you eat it, or keep it for company?” (My opinion openers are weird.) “Do you like…
Most of my students contact me not because they lack charm, or courage; more so, they lack self-reliance. They lack the ability to carry their own weight. Early in my own development, there were no wingmen. I was forced to go out alone. It was scary enough to make me pretend to talk on my…