Sometimes I feel like a big phonie, because in reality, I know very little about women. I’ve read all the pickup books. I’ve watched all the dvds. I’ve gone out to countless clubs and bars. I’ve dated dozens of them. I’ve had long term relationships. And after all this, the one thing I know most…
Approaching random women is not the easiest way to bring more girls into your life. The pickup artist community desperately wants to believe that all cold approaching is the magic pill that will bring you a worthy girlfriend, or the harem of your adolescent dreams. Approaching a load of women and playing the numbers game…
When I was in Asia I met loads of women, mostly tourists from Europe. I rarely went more than a day or two without meeting and hanging out with some. It was so refreshing compared to Vancouver, where I can meet nice girls, invite them to hang out, and then never hear from them again….
Following the release of The Game, by Neil Strauss, pickup-as-science hit the mainstream. Back then, most men were either naturally talented, or hopelessly incompetent. Then we learned that through exposure and practice, we could improve our ability to attract women. At first we memorized long, scripted routines, meant to increase attraction by displaying our wit….
During my last trip to Montreal, I rented a flat on rue St. Laurent, in the Plateau; the hippest neighbourhood in the city, with the best night-life shopping and café’s. Of course, it also contained the highest ratio of hot girls. Every day I’d go out to a café or park to work on my novel (just working…