By now most of my loyal readers have read my two books, A Thousand Tiny Failures and I Hope It’s Sunny Out. But it’s been four years … where’s the new book Tony? Huh? It’s coming. I’m working on it. And to prove it, here’s an excerpt. The story is about a young, sheltered Millennial…
Every client has the same problem… Uptalk If you want to know what uptalk sounds like, imagine this phrase coming from a 14 year old girl: “How are you? Like, you know what I mean? Like…totalleeeee!?” In coach speak we call this “seeking rapport tonality.” Yesterday I was watching a military doc about the first…
As an approach coach I often meet women with “wifey” qualities. Their charm and easy going attitudes are intoxicating. You just want to keep them around forever. And then I find out they’re married… “Of course. That’s why you’re so awesome.” I say. These women are almost always already engaged, or married young. In a culture…
A Reddit user posts in r/relationships that she is the “Mom” to her bf—seeking advice. I feel like that’s what my boyfriend is. Let me explain– I am basically a mom to my boyfriend. It seems like to ever have something accomplished I have to either do it by myself or constantly/nag/remind/pester my boyfriend into…
A despondent young Redditor at r/relationships is asking “How can I win her back?” While some of the commenters told him the truth,—that his neediness was his downfall, they failed to give any actionable advice on how to “win” his girl back. Let this letter be a warning to all you young lovers out there:…