At the time of this writing, I’m 35 years old. I started practicing pickup eight years ago. In that time, I’ve dated quite a few young women between 18-25. When I was in highschool, I pretty much got no ass. When I was in my early twenties, I got a few girfriends because I was…
When I was 21, all I cared about was smoking some pot, playing video games, girls and my band. I didn’t have high aspirations. Most of my free time was spent at low paying jobs, making just enough to pay rent with a few hundred left over. I didn’t know what to do with my…
(From Reddit r/relationshipadvice) I am a 30(m) she is 28. We met on a dating website, which was kind of weird for me in the beginning because I just had never seen myself getting into a long term relationship from a dating website, but over the 7 or so months we’ve been dating I couldn’t…
The number one complaint I hear from my students is, “I don’t know what to say.” This statement to me sounds like a cricket singing its song, or a mouse fart. I don’t think I’ve ever had a student in four years that didn’t know what to say. You’re not alone. You’re not unique. Your…
Every man has emotional ups and downs. Self-help teaches us to have delusional self-confidence— and this is a sound philosophy, especially in the pickup and dating scene. Your ability to remain cool, detached, and ruthlessly optimistic are integral to your success. But is there also a need for anger, fear, frustration and anxiety? I believe…