I spent the weekend of Oct 15-17 doing Tony’s bootcamp – Friday night, Saturday day and night, and Sunday afternoon to be exact. Anybody who reads the boards here on the Montreal Lair knows that Tony has a free-associative, poetic, natural style of writing, and his posts are consistently among the most insightful here. His…
To give you all a little background on myself – I’ve been in the lair for almost 2 years now, going out consistently for the past year. In that time I’ve made a lot of progress in terms of approach anxiety, escalation and dates but I felt I was having issues with my mindset and…
“Tony doesn’t promise you any magic bullets to getting better with women. Instead, he spends time getting to know you while helping you to have epiphanies (“holy shit!” light bulb moments) about yourself and about Game throughout the program with each new interaction with women. It is all about being fun, spontaneous, authentic, truthful and…
“But Tony, I just don’t know how to create attraction.” I hear this almost as much as “I don’t know what to say.” I wish I could wave my wand like Gandalf and slay this great Balrog. Unfortunately, I’m a human. I used to do coke every second weekend and I should still be in…
At age twenty seven, when I started improving my sex life, I’d been with fifteen women. Not bad for a shy weirdo with bitch tits. Thank god for rock and roll because once or twice a year, some groupie would throw herself at me. But in the first year that I spent practicing pua techniques,…