As western men, one of our most unconscious and ingrained anxieties, is the irrational fear that if we approach a woman, people in the vicinity might see us, or hear us, and condemn our action intrusive, creepy, or harassing. Look at the words: “Intrusive,” “Creepy,” “Harassing.” These terms chatter in our subconscious, like stifling, villainous…
Here’s the thing about best and worst texting practices in 2016—women are used to guys with text game. So if you’re trying to stand out by texting the equivalent of a voice mail from 1996, don’t be surprised if you never meet that girl. A client asked me to critique his texting. He handed me…
I’ve learned so much about women by talking to women. My friend Cynthia is dating a new guy, but she’s about ready to end it. “We don’t really have a spiritual connection.” She told me. “It’s like we just have these superficial conversations. Not like you and I have. It’s like he doesn’t care about…
What’s Tony D up to? It’s been awhile since I posted. Sorry! I was having a bit of a client rut and had to do some serious strategizing. Just writing blog posts wasn’t working. They’re just aren’t epic enough maybe. I’ve never been a guy who enjoyed sharing super tactical pickup techniques, but that’s what…
So I went and made another daygame video in Vancouver. Boy, this stuff is fun. It’s just such a fulfilling sensation to produce entertainment that you know will add value to people’s lives. It’s also scary to be so exposed. I’m not filming for weeks to cherry pick my best approach. This is literally my…