“Discipline” and “Responsibility”: The two big traits that separate the high achievers from the low. Rather than acting the perpetual victim, you should take responsibility for your situation, both externally, and internally; not only for your worldly affairs, but also your inner, emotional state. So for example, if you feel angry because your bathroom is a…
After I hook up with a girl, I often ask, what attracted her to me? Usually she says, “You were very confident.” “Very Confident.” What does that mean? What does that look like? I used to be so shy, so bad with women, so full of anxiety that I was nearly suicidal. I wrote a whole…
You’ve probably heard of a dead guy named Seneca: a Roman Philosopher and Stoic who lived from 4 BC – 65 AD. The man wrote like thirteen books, got super famous, amassed millions in Roman bux, banged loads of groupies—only to be ordered to suicide by his student, the hyper-Sadist, Emperor Nero—for his supposed involvement…
I’ve been practicing my link bait headlines. Part of my Gen Y marketing strategy. Who is Dj Fuji? On his website you will read: Darren “DJ” Fuji is an internationally-acclaimed motivational speaker and confidence/dating coach. He’s been featured in popular media including the New York Times, VH1, Gothamist, ABC Nightline, and The Dr. Phil Show….
Some dating coaches show videos of themselves acting like outright assholes and the women in the videos are laughing themselves to tears. Why is this? Not long ago, I was on a date with a lovely beauty. This girl was thin, young and adorable. I decided to make a nice compliment on her waist line: “You…