Today I want to talk about pulling the trigger. Have you ever seen a movie where someone has a bad guy at gun point, and everybody is screaming, “Pull the trigger! Pull the trigger!” What happens? The bad guy takes the gun and shoots the hero in the face. Often on my Pickup bootcamps I…
Jealousy is a useless emotion. It only serves to feed the pain. When I was in my early twenties, before I was a Vancouver dating coach, or even a man, I was seeing a really cool girl I met through my social circle. She was fun and bubbly and affectionate and super curvy. You could…
Isn’t life horrific? From the day you are born it’s a struggle. Thank Zeus our society has constructed a giant safety egg to protect us from the terror of being human. We have well paying jobs, easy access to food, shelter, health care, entertainment and education. Phew. But even with all this safety and comfort…
There’s been a major shift in the seduction industry. A lot of the old methods involved cocky and funny teasing, negs, backturns, demonstrations of value and hypnotic language. It all helped. It also turned a lot of nice normal men into approach machine weirdo’s…myself included. Then a small voice within the community grew to a…
There’s an eternal chatter inside your skull. It wants you to fail. It compares and whines and judges. It keeps you from doing cool things like starting a band, traveling, wearing cool clothes, working out…approaching beautiful girls. Some call him Ego. Some call it being, “Unconscious.” I call it being really fucking lame. Excuse my…