When guys tell me they “don’t know what to say,” I cringe. Because, what I’m really hearing is…I’ve met a few girls that weren’t impressed by my body language, style, vocal tonality, and energy. I explain this but still get hounded for exact phrases, come backs, openers, lines, etc. Relying solely on scripted lines is…
I was in my favourite dive bar last night, relaxing over a pint…alone. I wasn’t even hitting on women—just chilling out after a long and productive day, reminiscing a not-too-distant time when I was terrified of being in a bar or club alone. By myself! The first time I ever went out by myself was…
There’s an old concept in the seduction community called, “Cat String Theory.” The theory states that basically, if you dangle a string in front of a kitty…the kitty will chase the string. But as soon as you drop the string, the pussy just stares cow eyed and wanders off. People want what they can’t have….
After years of talking to guys about women, I’ve noticed certain patterns. Today I spoke with a guy that fits the post thirties divorcee archetype. They see my ad that I’m a dating coach, and figure I can help them, and I can, but usually they don’t really want help, they just want to bitch…
“Be water my friend.” Bruce Lee http://youtu.be/USlnfTGlhXc I bought a pair of those pushup handle bar things. I figure, if I’m going to drink booze, party all night and eat shitty food, then I may as well do pushups in the mornigs. I’m always growing, shifting, adapting. You should remain in constant game mode….