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Rules and Role Models; How to Create a Nice, Safe Identity. Or say “Fuck it,” Quit Your Job and Party Until You’re Broke.

I have no doubt in my mind that I’m the best dating coach in Vancouver, and probably the known universe. The reason being, I don’t know any other dating coaches. I’ve spoken briefly to a few others, but we tend to ignore each other lest we fight to the death like those head lobbing immortals…

Learned Helplessness

Let’s play an imagination game. Picture little Jimmy, fifteen years old, grade eight. He’s at his first high school dance. Jimmy is slightly overweight, and has acne. He’s also a bit shorter than most other kids at school. His Mother divorced his Dad when he was six. She’s an alcoholic. She is rarely home, and…