An ex-student came to me with this conundrum: “How do I make my fuck-buddy my girlfriend?” He picked her up at a party through social circle. They had sex on the second date (which in my humble opinion is perfect form. Too soon and she’ll feel slutty, too late and she’ll lose attraction). She was…
When you alter your beliefs and lifestyle to become more agreeable to her world, you create a vacuum of neediness that sucks all attraction into the void of friend zone. “But Tony…She’s…different!” I know, I know my son. It’s ok. Let it go. Forget her. Let’s go meet more women. There are ten special snowflakes…
Cold approaching is a lot like fishing. First, you cast your net far and wide. You sink many lines with attractive lures. You hook them hard, dazzle them. The bigger the fish the harder to catch. You need to be very experienced. You need to be abundant. You need patience, wisdom and sharp instincts. Some…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHjd9oq4Am4 Our ability to love ourselves in in direct relation to our ability to be loved. If you go out of your way to make people feel good, in return, your own self esteem will increase. When meeting women, don’t approach them with fear, doubt, or anxiety. They’ll sense a selfish man, not a self…
Reader Mail Time. I sometimes get asked if I coach women. I don’t and haven’t. But I’m totally down to try! I started reading your blog for fun a little while ago, but I recently broke up with my boyfriend (I’m a girl), and I’m starting to think that a lot of the things you…