I had a bit of downtime after the holidays. I’m pretty fringe and not many guys are willing to dish out $800 on a pickup bootcamp immediately after Christmas. So I took some time to work on my other hobby–fiction prose. I ended up with what might be a pretty decent short story. It’s a…
I’ve heard lots of talk on “deep rapport” lately so I thought I’d chime in. You can achieve a deep connection, or rapport, within three parameters. Most conversation is “surface” conversation. Like: “How was your day?” “Oh it was good.” “What did you do?” “I worked.” “That’s nice.” “Yeah. It was ok.” Deep conversation goes…
Happy New Years!!!! This is my 100th post. Funny that it lands on New Year’s eve. I just wanted to thank all my friends and loyal readers. I would love to say that without your support this blog wouldn’t have happened, but hell, I would still be writing about love, seduction and women with or…
I’m home with the family for a joyous Christmas celebration of hoarding turkey lard calories and catching up on prime time cable. Life’s grande. Here’s hoping I don’t bus any tables in 2012 and can continue writing debaucherous yet inspiring prose, running bootcamps and changing lives. My family is gathered in the living room sucking…
Imagine a man in a hushed whisper, like a little baby girl, “Hi…I just wanted to say, umm, you look really great today? Hi…” That’s what most new guys sound like. Then their approaches fall apart and they come back to me with, “I just don’t know what to say. Tony. What do I say!?” “Don’t…