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Pickup is a Skillset, not a Lifestyle
Following the release of The Game, by Neil Strauss, pickup-as-science hit the mainstream. Back then, most men were either naturally talented, or hopelessly incompetent. Then we learned that through exposure and practice, we could improve our ability to attract women. At first we memorized long, scripted routines, meant to increase attraction by displaying our wit….
You’re Doing Fine, Unless You’re Doing Nothing
Some people just aren’t going to like you, no matter what. Some people are going to love you, even when you suck. Some people are going to dismiss you until you are accepted by their tribe. Don’t worry about it. You live in a safe country. As long as you are honest and good, you…
Why You Fail
Most of you will fail. You will never, ever, get good at picking up, and likely never land the girl of your dreams. Not because you aren’t good looking enough, rich enough, or the right race. The answer is simple. You will give up. When a player is out to pickup, he doesn’t go home…
Oneitis, or “The Special Snowflake of Love.”
When you alter your beliefs and lifestyle to become more agreeable to her world, you create a vacuum of neediness that sucks all attraction into the void of friend zone. “But Tony…She’s…different!” I know, I know my son. It’s ok. Let it go. Forget her. Let’s go meet more women. There are ten special snowflakes…
Dating Younger Women
At the time of this writing, I’m 35 years old. I started practicing pickup eight years ago. In that time, I’ve dated quite a few young women between 18-25. When I was in highschool, I pretty much got no ass. When I was in my early twenties, I got a few girfriends because I was…
Never Give Up
There was a time, long before I became the international travelling dick wizard, that I went many, many years without the company of a fine woman. I’d go to work in construction, surrounded by men, return to my house full of men, and go to sleep dreaming of women. I’d wake up thinking of women,…

