There’s an old saying in the sales world: Always Assume the Sale. The reason you always assume the sale is because the buyer needs to see your confidence in the product. Because if you don’t love your product, why should they? In dating, you are the product. Therefore, you must absolutely love yourself. For success…
There’s an old movie called “Field of Dreams.” In it, Kevin Costner has a dream that if he builds a baseball pitch in a corn field, all the ghosts of the most famous ball players throughout history will show up to play. One of the ghosts says to him, “If you build it, he will…
Ask any girl what she’s attracted to in a guy and she’ll say “confidence.” She might also add handsome, tall, funny, rich. But those are all just bonus features. Mostly, women want a confident guy. Confidence is safe. A confident guy won’t become a school shooter when you don’t text him back. A confident guy…
It’s the age old debate: What matters more when attracting women? Your looks, status and money, or talent with talking to girls… otherwise known as game. While it’s important to maximize your looks, it matters far less to women than it does to men. This is picking up chicks 101. Here are the maxims of…
Most guys get this totally wrong with girls. Let me tell you a story. Restaurant Hottie I used to work in the restaurant industry as a busboy. There was this adorable sexy 19 year old blondie I’ll call, “Pixie.” Pixie pretty much ignored me. I still had approach anxiety back then. But one day I…