Most guys get this totally wrong with girls. Let me tell you a story. Restaurant Hottie I used to work in the restaurant industry as a busboy. There was this adorable sexy 19 year old blondie I’ll call, “Pixie.” Pixie pretty much ignored me. I still had approach anxiety back then. But one day I…
The vast majority of guys who get into cold approach, whether that’s meeting girls in bars, or through daygame, get frustrated and quit before landing their first girl. And it makes sense, because cold approach is really, really hard. It’s not physically difficult, but emotionally challenging. It’s a wild rollercoaster of emotions and women have…
Fun fact: This website used to be #1 on Google for two very relevant search terms: At one point, I had over 700 men a day finding my website due to these searches. Think about that, 700 guys a day, wondering what to text a girl that leaves them on “read.” This is unfortunate for…
I’ve coached more guys at daygame than I can count. Literally, 16 years of experience and counting. I have more anecdotal experience than most coaches on this planet. I’m not sure about Uranus. 😛 Because of this wealth of experience, I see patterns. Like this one; every single client has the exact same 3 problems: …
It’s been awhile since I talked about my personal life. A few years ago I had a bit of a breakdown. I felt burnt out on this topic: masculinity, pickup, dating, relationships, sexuality. I figured I’d explored everything there was, and anything I’d write would be just another rehash of things I’d said a thousand…