Be a Hot Guy…Be an Expert

To become an expert–Be willing to go further than anyone else. Be willing to dedicate your time.

Humans are creatures designed for expression. Some do it with a painting, or a song—you do it by going out and talking to strangers.

Of course every action has a reaction. So if you approach a strange girl and speak, she’ll react. The trick for you is to accept this for what it really means…nothing. It’s meaningless. Ones and zeros falling like snow flakes in a torrent of uncertainty.

Don’t think.

Don’t compare.

Don’t give up.

Don’t get negative.

Don’t get inside your head. Internal chatter will KILL your game. All the, “What if?” language will have you defeated before you arrive to the battle.

If you feel nervous…she feels nervous.

Don’t care what she thinks. Don’t care what anyone thinks. You will rise above.

Worrying what others think of you will weigh you down. Once you shake the fear you will rise like a phoenix, or a balloon, or whatever metaphor you choose.

Be different. Don’t try, yet be persistent.

Be a hot guy. Be an expert.